23 Months!

How did we get here?  One month away from their second birthday?  I am not sure where the time went.  Honestly the first year of the twins' life felt like an eternity for me.  It was a lot of work.  I was adjusting to my new life as a stay at home Mom.  They turned one and life got put on hyper-speed.  This past year has flown by.  There were so many fun "firsts."  Their personalities have become clearer to John and I.  They are constantly on the go and their communication skills are constantly improving.  They sweeten my life more each day.   I have enjoyed this year so much.  I kind of don't want it to end.  Especially since I've heard so many scary stories about having 2 two year olds.  And honestly the "fun" has already begun....

Just so you know the "terrible twos" start before the age of two.  The tantrums started at around 18 months and then it has only gotten crazier as we've gotten closer to the actual second birthday.

When you are out with two toddlers there is a 100% chance of a tantrum. Not just any kind of tantrum but the arched back, screaming, kicking, flailing kind.  The good one.  These moments have been our latest challenge.  And it never ceases to amaze me how quickly they can snap out of it.  You say the right thing or do the right thing and all of the sudden whatever was wrong is completely forgotten and they have total control of themselves.  Amazing.  Wouldn't it be hilarious if adults still did this?

I know it is developmentally appropriate.  It's a part of growing up.  I know it is how they try to assert their independence.  It is also because their communication skills are still developing.  All of that information doesn't make it easier in the moment.  Especially in public.  As my Mom always says, "This too shall pass, Meghan."  And as my Dad always says, "When it is hard, put your head down and push through."  And so I do.  And so I am sure we will all survive this latest phase of toddler development. 

And it certainly helps that we have two of the most adorable toddlers on the planet.  Sweet faces.